Shaboozey’s Met Gala Look Sparked Talk of a ‘Humiliation Ritual’: But What’s Really Going On?
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When country music artist Shaboozey stepped onto the 2025 Met Gala red carpet, he didn’t just arrive; he made a statement. Wearing a cropped jacket and matching pants, a sleek black tank draped in turquoise beads, and a wide-brimmed hat tilted with effortless confidence, the Nigerian-American star embodied this year’s theme: “Superfine: Tailoring Black Style.”
But what should have been a moment of pure celebration has sparked a wave of mixed reactions, some full of praise, others laced with criticism.
The Met Gala is known for pushing boundaries, but it’s also a mirror, reflecting not just fashion but culture, politics, and people’s expectations of how others should show up in public spaces. And for Black men, especially in the spotlight, that mirror often comes with strict, unwritten rules.
Online, the conversation around Shaboozey’s look has been loud and conflicted. Some users questioned the masculinity of the outfit. Others speculated, without evidence, that his ensemble was part of a so-called “humiliation ritual” that pressures Black men in entertainment to present themselves in ways that challenge traditional gender norms.
But for every critic, there were even more voices celebrating Shaboozey for showing up fully in his skin, his style, and his truth.
“Boozey, you were the best-dressed person at the Gala,” one fan tweeted. “Don’t let these insecure men dull your shine. Women and the LGBTQ+ community are going crazy for you right now!”
Another user wrote, “OH MY GOD SHABOOZEY IS DEVOURING. Are you kidding me??”
Many people pointed out the cultural richness of the look—how it nodded to Black southern flair, Nigerian heritage, and the long-standing tradition of Black fashion as resistance and artistry.
“This wasn’t just fashion,” one user wrote. “It was history. It was identity. It was rebellion. Shaboozey didn’t just follow the theme, he expanded it.”
And maybe that’s the heart of it. Shaboozey didn’t dress for approval. He dressed with purpose. For a generation navigating what it means to be bold, Black, and beautifully different in the public eye, his Met Gala moment was more than a red carpet look, it was a mirror for those trying to find the courage to do the same.